And by that I mean I’m back and ready to talk!
And here are my other two presents:
And by that I mean I’m back and ready to talk!
And here are my other two presents:
And if you wanna know what the “but” is, watch the video!
(Sorry I didn’t get this out yesterday, but YouTube was being a pain when it came to uploading.)
Pictures while I was out yesterday morning:
I’m touching on writing a little here, but I’m getting into some other stuff as well–like mental illness. That’s a heavy thing, so if you don’t want to read what I have to say, look at the picture and move along.
Though it may seem like a strange thing to consider when writing a novel about tweens and teens who are training up to be magical people, one of the things I had to consider when putting Salem together was the issue of counselling and mental health issues. That’s a very important thing to consider when you one realizes that pulling some kid in off the street and showing them they can alter reality to suit their whims may just put a weird-ass bend on their personality in time. The Foundation isn’t going to be happy if, after your second year at school, you turn your parents into ferrets and keep then in cages the whole summer.
And that’s a minor thing. Imagine what happens when you get really good? Say . . . like my main characters.
There will come a time at Salem when the pressures of what’s happening in their lives becomes a little too much for Annie and Kerry, and they start to lose it a little. I mean, Annie admitted first day of Sorcery class she knew how to kill someone with black magic, and Kerry was already seen suffering from depression. Sure, becoming better witches is going to make their feel a lot better–until they snap.
Then all hell breaks loose.
In these stories there will come a time where Kerry nearly dies. There will come a time where Annie loses her shit and almost kills someone in school. There will come a time where both Annie and Kerry will be put through a most stressful day that pushes them physically, magically, and mentally right to the edge and beyond. There will come a time where both of them are faced with a situation that may seem like it’s the final night for them both, and they not only talk about their impending demise–they promise each other that if one should die, the other will follow, because continuing to live without their soul mate simply isn’t an option.
That’s an issue that’s really simple for them as well. Annie points out that they both know enough transformation magic and sorcery that if they wanted to die, it would be over in less time than it would take to work up the spell. Stop your heart, freeze your blood, shut down all chemical reactions in your brain: stuff they could do to others they could easily do to themselves. It would be quick, it would be painless, and they’d know someone would be waiting for them on the other side once they were gone. It’s not something either would do because of depression: they’re not like that. But to join the other in death? Yeah, not a second thought is needed.
It’s the part about being able to do this to others that keeps The Foundation on their toes. At various times in the stories they both get counselling. They both suffer depression; they both go through periods of intense anxiety; they both exhibit signs of PTSD at various times. All before they ever get out of school, so imagine what their adult lives are gonna be like.
But they get great counselling. The Foundation has some of the best counselors in the world, and when you have a couple of people like Annie and Kerry representing your future, you want them to get the best psychiatric case possible. And they do.
They live in a world where they can get all the best medical care possible. They live in a world where, after a particularly hard day of fighting the magical fight in the shadows, they can spend the next month chilling and talking to someone about the experience. They go to a school that has enchantments in place to prevent people from jumping out of high towers, or crashing brooms into walls at a few hundred kilometers an hour, or setting themselves on fire, or any number of ways one may try to harm themselves. They live in a world where certain people–whose names start with an A and a K–could, if they decided to just go completely batshit insane, could do up River Tam considerably and take out a couple of dozen people with their minds.
It’s not a perfect location for that, but the school does its best, because training kids up to be the future shadow runners of the world is sometimes gonna leave an invisible mark.
We, on the other hand, aren’t that lucky. I’ve never hidden my own mental illness, never admitted that it isn’t there. Between depression, being bi-polar, and having GID, I’ve been a mess most of my life.
Mental health treatment in the country of my birth is a joke. Most of it isn’t covered by insurance. Nearly all my therapy has been covered out of pocket since 2009 on, and believer me, it’s not cheap. I don’t take meds because I (1) have no health insurance, and (2) didn’t like how I felt when I was on meds, which was either zombie-like or not much better than I was before getting on them.
These days I do what I can to get by, and I’m usually successful. Usually. I have my “Break down and cry” moments, and they’re usually bad, but I get over them and move on. I was crying Sunday when I went out to pay a bill, because I do that–cry, not pay bills. Saturday night . . . well, that was a disaster.
I have a hotline number on my phone, and my therapist’s number as well. When I’m feeling bad I don’t go out on my balcony, because I live twelve stories up and I have enough knowledge of physics and laws of gravity and acceleration to know once you’re over the side it just about two seconds and done, finished, out of the blue and into the black. Quick, easy, and pretty much painless.
When I’m feeling really bad I visualize. I have two people that mean everything to me. One is my daughter. The world can suck enough and she doesn’t need anymore suckage in her life. The other is a person I spoke of last week, the one person who means the world to me. When I get really bad I imagine her alone in a room in the dark, crying because she’s heard that I’ve move on beyond The Veil and I’m not coming back. I hold that image in my mind for a few moments, then shuffle all the bad shit away and move on.
I’d die for her, but not that way. It isn’t fair to her.
My novel kids will not always have an easy time. Before they turn eighteen they’re going to see a world of shit, and it will be difficult for them to walk away unscathed. It’s stuff that they’ll take into adulthood, things that will remain with them for a long time.
But I’ll take care of them in the end and see they get help.
If only I could do that for everyone.
Yesterday something popped up on my blog–not my blog, actually, but more a message from WordPress. It was, “Congratulations! You registered with us five years ago today.”
I had to think about that, because I was damned if I could remember just when I’d signed up and established my presence here. I remember when I started blogging–those first, abortive attempts in April of 2011 that I didn’t take very seriously, like damn near everything else in my life back that. But I hadn’t remembered when I signed up for this space, I had to think . . .
Yeah, that would be right before Christmas 2008, not long after being laid off from a job I’d held for thirteen years. A job that had been going downhill fast at the point, but because the economy was free falling faster than Gypsy Danger from fifty thousand feet, there weren’t a lot of options when it came to better employment. So when the end came I took my severance with a smile and more or less told them I was happy to be leaving their shit stain of a job behind.
Sure, I wouldn’t work again for a little over three years, but you have to take the bad with the good.
Why did I sign up? I don’t remember the exact reasons. I believed, most likely, that I had something to say, and that I was going to try this fangled thing the kids called “blogging”, ’cause I can write and people are gonna want to hear what I have to say. Yeah, December 2008. I had me a blogging area. I wouldn’t start writing until about . . . let me see . . . yeah, about two and a half years later.
That was probably a good thing, because everything coming out of my mouth back then was filled with remorse. I was still in therapy, and would remain so through 2009–that was when my insurance ran out and I couldn’t afford to not only see my counselor any more, but I couldn’t afford the medication I was taking. I will tell you right now, in case anyone is wondering: mental health coverage is a wonderful thing. Sometimes the only thing preventing you from jumping off a building is a twenty dollar co-pay on your meds, and if you have that in your life, you should consider yourself lucky.
Why all the gloomy talk? For one, I had another strange dream–yeah, that’s been happening for some reasons. I can’t quite put my finger on what happened, but think of it as Glee with time travel. Like I said, strange. I have no idea what it meant, but it was there. The one thing I do remember is that I was told, quite a lot actually, that I needed to get better. And I spent a large part of the dream alone.
I’ve also thought, for a few weeks now, that my depression has come back. I’d distracted a lot these days. I look for things to break up the monotony, and it’s not always there. When I’m writing, at times it feels like I yank the words out onto the page, that I have trouble typing them, like I don’t want to see them, even though I do.
When I’m not at work I spend all my time alone. It’s one of the reasons I try to eat out on the weekends, because I do get a bit of peace from being out among the people–even if the majority of them look like scary-ass crackers, like the people I saw yesterday. You pay your money and you take the ride, right?
Five years registered, half of that writing.
Where am I going to be in five years?
Maybe a time traveling Glee knows.